Over Expectation...what is this?

This is blog which is basically on very serious issue but will try to make it funny :)
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Story starts from when my dear friend manikant falls in love with a girl , who is unfortunately his one of the best friends (don't know why we say one of the best friends because i can afford only 1 the best friend ).Honestly speaking when i see them, a hindi phrase crosses my mind "Kwua chala haans ki chaal". Both are hanging around , enjoying each others company as a friend and going for movies but as usual boys falls in love faster than girls or we can put this way boys sexual hormones excite them faster than girls..haha..jokes apart. Mani starts thinking he got the right girl with whom he can spend his whole life ...may be my friend is a vegy and doesn't like eat outside :) .....finally the judgement day came and my friend delivered his heart out in front of her....in my opinion she should have slapped him and should have said "go and look out your face into the mirror" but the verdict was bit diplomatic and political and verdict was saying "Its not in my hand , i can not decide my fate...and i don't have any feelings for you"...it is bit emotional but i don't understand from where this much diplomacy comes into girls mind and why they always wants to keep their options open...but my poor friend had no other option other than noding his head of giving acceptance that he understands the situation like a caged lion in the zoo follows his master's instructions.....that was the other thing that he was boiling on 300 c tempreture....my poor friend decided to make thing normal like lion has promised to eat bread :)...he was texting her , trying to make her happy as he was in real love but he was ignoring the fact that he is becoming obsessed of her.....and because of this obsession he started expecting something from her and start doing silly things...but she did not like the fact as she wanted some space for herself and hate illogical things or if i have to say their relation(not sure) was becoming very complicated. Both were ambitious and free flowing.......one day she call mr. mani...said that because of your over expectation now we are not jelling well....and you must change this habbit...... he tried to convince her and said many things but all were in vain....may be she was right , i mean she was absolutely right but one thing was not right that my poor friend called me and he was crying like anything.....he said now a days he is thinking 10 times before saying anything next to her and he loved her so much that he went so low on his dignity level .....but vise versa isn't there , she is very logical and practical........................i don't know what is going to happen but as far as i know my friend one day he will quit , he will start running from people because he will be scared of love and truely as i know him ..he is not right person for love... he doesn't like complicated things and terms are real complicated apart from the girl is absolutely right from her perspective....... in my opinion they should get apart if they need to put extra effort to make things running....if there was anything between them ...they will again come close otherwise they will live their lives peacefully ......hope for the best whats gonna happen.................may god bless both of them

Life is tough!!!

Life is tough , that is given,
when you stand up , you gonna be shove back down,
When you are down , you gonna be stepped on,
The advice to you doesn't come with lots of builds and whistles,
Its no secret,
You fall down , you stumbled ,
You get pushed , you land square on your face,
But every time that happens , you get back on your feet,
You just get up as faster as you can,
No matter how many times , you need to do it,
Remember this ,
Success has been in contagious to be defined,
as getting up one more time , when you bare knock down,
if experience taught me anything , nothing is free and live in easy,
life is hard , real hard , incredibly hard, you fail more often than you win,
Nobody is handing you anything ,
Its up to you , pump up your chest , stretch your neck and over come all the difficulties ,
the nasty , the mean , the unfair.
if you want more than what you have now!!
prove it ,
You wanna hear the best theory is , get out there and earn it,
Once you decide that , you wanna be there and won't stop pushing yourself until you get that,
That's how winners are made.
At the end of the day ,
Success is what we all want ,
We all wanna win and the race will be won ,
There is no question about that,
So come on,
Get up on the top , run faster , dream bigger , live better than you ever live,
This is in you ,
You can do this ,
Do it for yourself,
Prove it for yourself.